prayer request

So frustrating to see a friend struggle because events and people in her past have told her that she is worthless, un-lovable, a doormat. She just really needs Jesus to shine the truth of His love into her life...it's painful to see her selfless to a point where it's self-destructive, not because she wants to show love to others, but because she is living under obligation to serve everyone around her, except herself. Jesus, please help her. Speak true life into her spirit, please.